"What the hell is going on?" : why we don't know our kids
"You adults don't have a clue" : understanding the second family
"I'm not who you think I am" : the two faces of teens
"Why don't you invite your friends over?" : dealing with the second family
"Don't let me slip away" : lying and the empathic envelope
"Listen to me!" : increasing empathy and self-reflection
"How dare you!" : dealing with privacy, confidentiality, and other matters of trust
"Don't you grownups ever talk to each other?" : creating adult partnerships to protect kids.